connect 2019 • 20 We find that fostering a positive relationship on the ground first is what best works through some emotional roadblocks.” Many of the children who have gone through the program are vet- erans of other social services. The unique nature of Equine Enrich- ment has been a breakthrough for some. “When these young people come out here they are finally connecting with their body, mind, and soul,” says Carla Devine, a Director with Equine Enrichment. “There is something about being present in what is going on because they have to be positive for the horse to respond to them in a positive way. Sometimes a young person will grab the reins and wait. We say to them ‘You need to be the leader. How can you be effective? If you stand up straight and give off vibes of confidence, that horse will fol- low you.’ It is instant bio-feedback. To see the difference that simple change makes, is profound.” “It took me about three sessions to feel comfortable,” says Roisin, a participant in the EAGALA program. “The first time I came I could feel my heart beating when Buddy (the horse) came over. I was shaking like a leaf….” But Roisin and her friend Caitlin not only came through The Ireland Funds-sponsored program, but came to love the horses and the outcomes so much they have stayed on to serve as mentors to future groups of young people. “I brushed Buddy’s tail, strand by strand,” explains Roisin. “I learned that we can pace our breath to the same breath as the horse. They breathe longer and slower.” Roisin smiles as she says proudly, “I have no fear of horses anymore.” Roisin and Caitlin shared that they see many of their peers struggling with mental health issues and trauma. “There’s just not enough support out there, and there’s trust issues too. You’re constantly wondering ‘are they judging me? Are they talking about me?” says Roisin. “And in some families you can still feel isolated. No one knows what happens behind closed doors. But here, you feel like someone understands your world.” EQUINE ENRICHMENT